Rebelle’s Threesome Do’s and Don’ts

Threesomes can be a tricky subject – both men and women fantasise about what it could be like to invite an extra person into their bedroom. You have to be mindful of the minefield of potential repercussions for your relationship. Threesomes are not like regular sex- they require a helluva lot more work. Don’t let that fact put you off, go into it with an open mind and remember these tips will only help you make a more positive choice.

Here are some guideline  do’s and don’ts for a successful threesome:

DON’T get attached

Remember the guest star ( extra person in a threesome) is for the night not for life! Choose someone impartial someone neither of you has any important life connections to. Especially do not pick someone that either of you has feelings for. It’s all hot and sexy until you realise your partner is getting to bang their crush right in front of you, with your permission. 

DON’T use it as a Band-Aid!

Countless times I have heard and read about people introducing a threesome to bring a spark back into their sex life.  No, No, No, No, No!! Chances are if you are concerned about performing CPR on a flagging sex life adding a third party is not the band aid you need. You do need to get back to your sensual basics and reconnect with each other. If you think things are bad between you now, wait until you’ve seen your partner having a whale of a time with another lover. 

Do pick someone who is sexually confident

In a threesome situation you will have enough to keep you occupied without having to spend your evening reassuring all parties involved. This is no place for low self esteem and a lack of confidence. You should pick an assured partner who has had a few partners. This is not the time to be popping cherries! 

DON’T forget that you’re partaking in a THREE-some

I’m not saying there needs to be a schedule on the wall detailing who’s turn it is to give or receive. All the same manners are important. Don’t forget your guest and don’t be a pillow princess!

DO get tipsy… but don’t get plastered

A cocktail or two can help lighten the mood and release your inhibitions. But pretty please don’t get sh*t faced. Chances are it’ll be a horrendous experience for everyone if you do. Not only that but you run the risk of not being able to perform at all. Worse again you might have the greatest night of your life but you might not be able to remember it at all. How devastating would that be. 

At the end of the day my lovelies you know your lives better than I ever will. Go forth be naughty, be safe, be well, listen to your heart and your gut and most importantly have fun!!

Rebelle 

xoxoxoxo

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